srad34 - do you not think your avatar is a bit, well, gross ? Everything in it's place and all that, but is that really here ?
I have a simple solution, I take Nicky with me, she loves the bike as much as I do, and when she passes her test she's got her own Monster to ride!
Relationships are a two way thing and as much as chaps hate talking ..... Is there something that's making you think she's not happy? Then ask. You won't always get the answer you hope for sadly but it's then up to both if you to come to a happy compromise. I spent 13 years and had 2 children with a non biker ... Is never do it again. We couldn't find a happy medium and I was very unhappy. I'm a lost soul really as very happy around bikes / biking . I'm not material or into shopping and keeping up with the Jones I don't on the whole get on with a lot of women unless they are like me. Happy to let a bloke go out riding or with mates. But also of course would like to spend time with them as well.. Dithering in the garage or dragging them out on the bikes. Even if your a couple you need your own time . Your still both individuals. Seen alot if couples shut themselves off or not go out , sadly then broken up and basically your both on your own . Also if you get in a relationship with anybody who has a lifestyle or hobby it's unfair to expect them to give it up totally for the other. It maybe you do it in a bit more moderation .. But never stop being yourself. Never ever go into something thinking I can change them .... Nobody has a right to do that. If people wish to change they will . If they don't you can't force it except the person for who they are not what you want. Talk to her ..... It's the only way . It may be you say Saturday afternoon il nip out on the bike but Saturday evening we will have time together doing...... Good luck
Sorry but balls!! Not every woman wants to talk, mine just prefers shouting and if I ever did what was suggested I'd be walking out if the clinic having had my only remaining (she already owns the other one) testicle removed!! lol
Bradders ever your kinky into dominatrixs or you need to grow some more balls !! PMSL !!! get out from under the thumb right now ! seriously with me it's two way or il walk away after a while
Why don't you dress up as batman leap from on top of the wardrobe in your cape and surprise her saying your in charge for the night she may like it !!! You never know it could be your lucky day
i had bikes when i met my ex years ago when i bought another bike she said these words to me "well its either me or the bikes" i had bikes when i met my now wife she says she wouldnt have me any other way and she telling me to buy another lol she thinks i am grumpy without one one the road lol
