I emigrated back in 2008, moved to Maine, USA - married a beautiful woman, had an amazing house, was Very Happy! Until she decided to start fking her ex again, screwed me over for what the house sold for & again in the divorce? :frown: Been there, done that - was a Perfect Nightmare... :wink: You'll excuse me if I associate planes with bad memorys.
If I aint got the money I dont do it.Ive never had much money so have always been"careful".Doing something for someone else might not be the best reason to go into debt.
Indeed. I think guilt is giving me the urge to do this, I may plan a trip later on depending on the depth of my life crisis at the time lol
I'm with Keith. If you can afford it then great go but if not is it really worth putting yourself in a difficult financial position? If you brother cares about you he will not want you to do that, if he doesn't then why would you want to go to his wedding. I like the Skype suggestion. This is hard for me to say this as I am a spontaneous person and would normally say go but I have also lived through being in debt so know how hard it is to clear. Weddings are special but the couple have so much going on that they will not get to spend time with you. But once you have a job and money you can go visit at a time when you can spend quality time with them. Suze
It's not planes, it's wimmin - snakes with tits (so a friend tells me). *sits back waiting for a typographical shoeing...*
as much as i would love to see you go, financially, i must dis-advise.. it's neither the time nor the circumstance to blow the bulk of your reserves on such a trip... this said : HAVE A GOOD TIME! and have a case of FOSTERs for us.. :smile:
If you really wanted to go you would be on your way. My cousin lives in New Zealand and when our nan died she skyped as she couldn't make it. It was nice to have her there and she could join in Personally I think you should skype and when financially your better off go out and spend quality time without the worry of coming back to other worries
Aye, just playing. The quote is from a work colleague who is "happily" married (one of the most miserable gits I have ever met, he couldn't actually be "happily" anything). have had the pleasure of knowing some top lasses, and displeasure of knowing some proper a-hole blokes, such is the balance of life. stick with the Ducatis, at least we all know the blend of pain/pleasure they deliver :biggrin:
Just had a moment of clarity... The Landlord wants me out at the end of January - long story, the letting agents are being arses about the work and decorating they said they would get sorted before me and the ex moved in (back in May?!?), there is a lot that needs doing and rather than get it all done (the place was empty for six weeks before we moved in??!) they find it easier to "stop listening to your eternal whinging!" and get me out. I find myself jobless and apparently homeless, I cant be dealing with Winter & Xmas in general - cold, wet, dark nights buying presents for relatives you cant stand & avoid all year only to have to make smalltalk to them over Xmas day roast. :wink: My son is in his twenties, and now lives with his longterm gf in Mlebourne, Oz. ("Riiiight underneath, The butt crack of Australia!":biggrin My Brother & his fiancee will be married as you know very soon and are having a huge house built for them, a big bugger with a double garage, games room, other rooms, more rooms etc. We chat regularly and get on well, he has always said I have a room there if I want it, we had a band together back in the Nineties & it would be amazing to bang some tunes out again! Im tired of this country, its shitty weather, two seasons (we have two seasons in England, a warm winter, and a cold winter), the way we harbor terrorists & havent got the balls to stop their benifits and/or fk them off back home, and its dying economy. Food and fuel gets more expensive, wages stay the same? How the fk does that work? I looked around earlier, out in the garage cutting stainless - & thought "Fk it" "Sell everything and move out there!" "Whats keeping you here?" Not. A lot. Happy enough to sell the car & house contents, my garage contents & tools would have to come with me - Im torn about selling my Carbi... have sold one bike this year, My SS would more than likely have to be exported and that aint cheap? Hummm... My life in the UK has run itself into a dead-end, starting again may be the way out. :smile:
If thats what you have decided to do,all I can do is wish you the very best.Hope it works out for you.
