I had one from 2007-10, before getting the first 1200S Multi. It was a missile, but that clutch was something to get used to! Sold to a friend, who has only this year traded it in and got almost what he paid me for it, a decade ago!
Welcome back... Manual is downloadable here: https://www.ducati.com/ww/en/service-maintenance/owner-manuals Page 142 on the pdf (although it says 141 on the page) Then choose front or rear
My bike is a 1200 so the actual menus will be a bit different but you can prime yourself by RTFM... ;p Here's a link to the owner handbook (go to page 57, 142) and you can see how to finagle the settings. I thought the same as you "three modes" but actually you can modify various parameters in each mode, including as I described. I'm a bit shorter than you but only a little lighter so if you take my cue as a starting point and fiddle from there you should be able to find baby-bear's porridge...
