If he's legit the sweet FA you can do. Certainly better than robbing old ladies. Im a car trader and let me tell you its not a easy, its hard work. Some days I have nothing to do but like this week there have not been enough hours in the day. And I have someone collecting at 7 this evening. Im the salesman, the buyer, the valeter, the logistics manager, sometimes the mechanic. The list goes on. Im lucky as I do have plenty of space at my house and only one direct neighbour. I do have extra storage up the road. Im a legit trader, fully insured, trade plates, give warranties etc.
I am struggling to detect any connection whatever between a man imprisoned after conviction for multiple rapes and a man who openly sells some second-hand cars. Have two wholly different threads been merged by mistake?
Two different people mTe .. The guy selling cars up the road is nothing to do with me, but gets violent apparently.. The monster in the newspaper is my ex, bro in law... I disliked him from day one, wish I'd nailed him then before he did what he did to my family.. Abused my Sister, his own kids and a handicapped child.. ( obv my parents and I knew nothing of it until the news broke) 2days after the news broke my Dad, my very best friend and inspiration, collapsed, he was a broken man, his family, his Daughter and his Grandchildren were decimated, he was taken to ICU in hospital, he never regained conciseness.. I talk to him everyday in my thoughts and do my best to help kiddies having difficulties in his honour as I know it's what he would have done.. No one worked harder to bring us up as a luving family, sadly, it's never been the same since.. That moron has left all my family with the most terrible memory's and in my opinion he took our Dad away too.. Trust me he will pay.. X
No mate, my fault I wear my heart on my sleeve.. The feeling was the car seller deserves payback for threatening people who take back his dodgy cars.. Someone offered to give he a seeing too, but I said don't worry I've plenty of mtes who have allegedly, helped me out by arranging a little fall for my ex bro in law, he is the one who's in the newspaper, jailed... Sometimes it just helps me to get a load off my mind as there's never a day that goes by that I don't think of the past event.. If I didn't, I'm very sure it would have taken another life .. I will battle on... X
OMG,,, this is all getting a little heavy man,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, first off,, ( if i may ) obv this guy is a bit of a perv,, but hey man , not your fault, ( maybe even the guy selling the cars is a bit unsavoury, but that dont make him a perv ),, love your dad, we all have,,,,,, differentiate and move on,,,, i am sure your dad knows all about it,, looking down as he prob does...
Can people start writing on understandable English with a hint of sentence structure please ? Its like an ITV series; almost impossible to actually get to the plot! Can't tell if its a paedo selling cars or a tax dodging paedo or just a regular Swiss Toni?
Luvly words friend appreciated truly... Fraid moving on is imposs... Helping others helps me.. But as I said, bottling it up takes it toll... So sometimes it's just nice to talk to friends and www. Friends too, just to keep me going.. At times is does and has got too much.. Your all appreciated for listening and putting up with me.. TY all X
hey cool mate,,,some things some folks find easy, some things some folks find hard,, everyone etc,,,,,, i am sure you get good feeling helping some folks,, we all do,, even me !!!
Awww noodles there are no words that can take the pain away He looks like a monster and I didn't like his face when I saw it I hope what goes round comes back at him with vengeance Sounds like your holding your family together Sending you and your family a big wrap around ducbird hug
yoo know,,theres nothin like family , i am sure if you did right by yours then they will know,, from here or up above,,,,life live mate , make the best, coz your a long time gone..
Thanks hon it's needed and Muchly appreciated too.. I know people mean well when they say.. " you need to move on" .. It's not sympathy your looking for its maybe a little understanding at times.. As I'm very sure your aware I'm very open about things, if I wasn't I'd be long gone believe me.. Seriously abused myself at 14 by 9 elders ( not parents ) and told," you squeal, your 11 yr old sister gets it.". My crime, I picked a boys belongings up who they had just beaten.. I was told I'd just made the biggest mistake of my life... He wasn't wrong! I kept it a total secret, somehow, for the next 30odd yrs.. I had a panic attack when being instructed up a crane at work, I feared I would be sacked, but, I ended up with the support of my employers, and later showing a female councillor some of the showable scars I have, my map of where I've been as I like to say, It felt good to get it out there.. The drawbacks were, not being able to get close to guys at all, even my Son and my dear Dad.. So when my Dad was taken suddenly, thanks to the moron, and I'd never hugged him since I was 14ish, or told him how I luved him.... That, unfortunatly, will always be.. I know he knew, but, I can't forgive myself, just, no way.. I did manage it with my Son though, just a few years back when he was off back to UNi.. That was special.. So learn from me, no matter how tough you might think you are or perhaps there's been a disagreement, if you luv em.. Make sure you take the time to let em know... Cause you never know.... X
Moving on isn't easy the impact lessens slightly as the years go on I have a dear friend who was abused by the Christian Brothers in Ireland he was caught stealing at the age of 2 and given to them He has no concept of what a mum or dad is and when I first met him he wouldn't let me into his space over time he learnt to trust me and I asked if I could hug him and he said yes He still allows me into his space he is 85 the stories he told me are just so sad to hear like yours noodles He has written a book about it All you can do is talk and just have someone listen not to make suggestions but just to give a bit of kindness to the situation
